Sometimes folks ask me to write an article on how to go
about writing a book, how to get published or how to get an agent.
This is when I get downright serious and tell them, WRITE
don’t WHINE!!
Both words have five letters. Both begin with W, end with E
and have an I right in the middle. That makes them shirt tail kin but it
doesn’t make them blood brothers by any means.
Someone once said that writing is about five percent
inspiration and 95 percent perspiration. It’s not an easy job and it takes
dedication and discipline…which are two D words that both have ten letters,
start with a D and define the writing job pretty good.
With that in mind, whining gets nothing done. You can do it
all day and at the end of the day you’ve got a blank page and a frustrated
feeling that even chocolate won’t cure. Whereas if you spend the day writing,
it might not be perfect, but hey, you’ve got something on that page that you
can rework. And who knows it could be the next New York Time’s best seller when
you finish the story. The great Nora Roberts said in a conference I attended
that you can’t fix anything on a blank page but if you write every day, you
will have some raw material to work with.
Put aside how to get published or how to get an agent. If
you don’t have a finished book, you might as well be whistlin’ “Dixie ”
in the wind. Finish that book. Then it’s time to think about publishers and/or
agents.
I agree with that person who said that about inspiration and
perspiration but I’ll go a step further and say, “It’s five percent inspiration
and 95 percent ‘sit your butt in the chair and don’t let anything distract
you,’ and that is where those two D words come into play.”
So I get up every morning and look at the woman in the
bathroom mirror and remind myself that today I will not whine, today I will write.
It’s called practicing what I preach and preaching what I practice.
It’s tough love that I give to myself and to those who ask
me my advice. But at the end of the day, when I’ve got words on the computer
screen, it’s a heck of a lot more profitable than whining.
So go write, my aspiring friends.
Which brings me to a story. I’ll make it short. Several
years ago I received a letter from a group who was trying to start a writer’s
club. I was so excited that they recognized me as an author until I looked closely
at the heading on the letter: TO ALL EXPIRING AUTHORS!
I asked Mr. B exactly how dead I had to be to join the club.
My advice is write, don’t whine, and when you finish that
book, be sure to spell check it before you hand it off to someone for
consideration!!
I have no discipline or dedication to write but I'm so glad God made those who do! Keep doing what you do, because your books are truly entertaining!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Deniese. I have to give myself that lecture daily or I'd never get one of those books written! Whining is so much easier than sitting my butt in the chair but it produces nothing!
DeleteMay I please copy your 10 steps to becoming a better writer to hang on my bulletin board? I have stories and fantasies in my brain that want to come out. Over the last year, I have been reading about writing, but now I am ready to write. I have missed all those 100-150 page papers I used to write in grad
ReplyDeleteSchool. I have started writing my story. If no one reads what I am writing, that's okay, but I hope someone will read it and like it.
ReplyDeleteYou've got the hard part behind you if you've started writing...onward, forward and pushing toward the goal now!
DeleteYes, darlin', you certainly may!!! Jump in there and start writing. One thousand words a day will net you a completed book within four months!
ReplyDeleteI wish I could write as good as you Carolyn! I have a hard time writing reviews but
ReplyDeleteI try. The words are in my head but I have a hard time putting them on paper.
Oh, Kim, thank you thank you thank you a million times over for writing reviews! that means so much to authors! Big, big hugs!
ReplyDeleteThey may not be as long and ravishing as some I see, but if it's worth a 5 star Iet thwm know it!
ReplyDeleteThank.you from the bottom of my heart for sitting in your chair and writing, your doing that has given me hours of reading enjoyment.
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